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Saturday, June 28, 2008 | 5:17 AM

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sometimes, humans are such strange creatures. >.<
we can live our lives very happily, but because of our stubborn nature, we refuse to let it be so.
whatever we do, whatever we meet, and whatever that happens to us,
since it happened, we cannot change it.

example, maybe someone cut your queue at the mall.
the first reaction of most ppl would be to get angry or buay song and start confronting the person.
but think about it,
so what if you got angry?
it wouldn't do anything to the person who cut the queue.
so what if you went and scolded the person?
i don't think he would care, seeing that he already dared to cut the queue.
do you realise that in the end, it is yourself that is all upset and unhappy?

生气，就是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。)X

if you told yourself,
i have no reason to put myself in torment and fuss over such a small matter.
i should be feeling kinda sad for him, cause he doesn't realise that there is any wrong in cutting the queue, the person will suffer in the future because of this flaw in his character.
i should be feeling relieved, i was well brought up enough to know what is right and what is wrong.
at the most, you should just tell him nicely that he is being unfair to the ppl queueing behind, if he refuses to listen, chill, i think he's just a very sad case. ):

see, 原谅别人就是善待自己。(X
you've got nothing to lose by being a forgiving person! ^.^

when stuck with a task that we don't like to do, we get fed up and complete it unhappily.
do you know, whatever you are faced with, and whatever that happens, even the worst things have their good points.
we just like to, or you could say it's in our nature to see all the negative aspects of things first.
面对它，接受它，处理它，放下它。
since you HAVE to do it,
would you rather do it happily, or do it unhappily?
im asking the obvious.
and so?
we have to learn to view everything from a happier perspective.
instead of brooding about what you've got to lose by doing the task, think about what you can gain from doing it.
sounds difficult, but not impossible!

i feel very sad when i see ppl saying that they hate their lives, esp ppl living in singapore.
no matter what situation we're in, we always have somethings more fortunate than others.
think about that.
能活着，就已经是一种幸福。
there are so many sad cases around the world, where babies die even before they are born.
ppl dying at a young age because they don't have enough to eat.
and there are actually ppl in singapore who complain they don't have enough pocket money when they have $30 a week and are splurging all the money on shopping. D:
we have more than enough to eat everyday, with that, we should already be thankful.

其实我们都已经过着很快乐的生活，问题只在于我们愿不愿意放宽我们狭窄的心胸去发觉这个快乐而已。(:

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